You know…there is something to be said about being spontaneous with
your man. Yeah, I know…making a split decision to go out for dinner or have a “quick intimate moment” can seem daunting, especially when you have children, but I think spontaneity is good and worth it!
We woke up this morning and the first thing Shelby said was, “Babe, I got a taste for a really good steak tonight”. I could have easily agreed and put a visit to the grocery store on my ‘to do’ list today OR I could make reservations! Hmmm….let’s see, what shall I do??
RESERVATIONS!
Here’s my point. So many times we save the “reservations” for special occasions or week end date nights, nothing wrong with that. However, I am suggesting you treat a regular ol’ Tuesday like a special occasion, call your babysitter (if needed) and DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT! Go out to dinner just because! Rent a view movies, pop some popcorn and just be together…on the fly!
We didn’t plan to go to dinner tonight and we could have easily cooked at home….but instead, we were spontaneous. And you know what, it felt really good and tasted pretty good too!!
So…do something spontaneous with your mate in the next few days. It’s OK to PLAN spontaneity…it’s good and makes a difference in the relationship for sure.
Just wanted to share my thoughts…thanks for “listening”. J
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